Okay, the summer's in full swing and the question is: "Who's got the better bod?" I mean, just look at all those buff, nicely tanned, (very) scantily dressed people out there! So how do you measure up? Hey, you want to let go of something? Let go of comparing yourself to others! And I'm not just talking bods - I'm talking everything - from who's smarter and more "successful" to who's got more followers on Facebook, notches on their belts or bucks in the bank. What a waste of energy. The moment you step back, hesitate or wonder, "Do I really measure up?" you lose your balance, your momentum and God knows, your mojo. Don't do it. "Just do you," as one of my daughters always tells me. And when I do, it always works.